Sunday, June 17, 2012

Appreciate yourself

HEY if you're reading this, you have great legs. And if you can read this, well, YOU CAN READ and you have great legs. Here's 2 great things of yourself.


Was having a conversation with the sisters the other day, she asked "which part of you body do you like?" I said "hmm prolly my legs..." "oh and my butt too ever since I started squatting" and I continued with a few other parts. I don't hate them like how I used to. I used to go like fuck this shit my thighs are jiggling, my butt saggy my tummy is bulging my boobs are miniscule my this my that. Screw that.

Then we moved on to face parts. I personally think there are room for improvements, but I'm comfortable with my looks. I'm in need of braces (still trying to fix an appointment to get brace -_-). I am well aware that my teeth is not straight and they're not perfect. I get mixed messages like how my teeth is very "me" but then my parents all say I should go for it due to cosmetic reasons. If there is room for improvement, I would. But am I unhappy with how I look? No.

Then moved on to plastic surgery. Yes, I would go for it if I could. Screw the horror stories about plastic surgeries, I mean look at Xiaxue! She looks super pretty now!! Yes, you can say she's all plastic and whatsoever but at the end of the day, is she pretty? Yes. It's as simple as that, there is always room for improvement and striving for perfection is just absurd. What's the perfect face shape? Perfect this perfect that? As long as you're happy that is what matters. I would go for rhinoplasty is I have the chance to, I'm not afraid of pain or the gore that I'll have to go through, (more on the finance part -_-) I just need sorta, minor changes, prolly a smaller nose, I don't need it to looks like SOng Hye Kyo or Megan Fox's nose, just slight changes that'll improve my looks. And then I want a smaller jawline, I heard injecting botox helps. Will I try it? If I can, I would! I guess it's just the Sagittarian in me that I want to try everything. If I don't like it, move on! Life goes on, get over it, let go. I mean if anyone is given a chance to look better, you would right?? Just my own opinion, you don't have to agree with what I say, you have the right to disagree, but why so serious? It's just a topic of discussion.



Just a random question, you can go anonymous, which part of your body/face that you're most satisfied with and why? If you're given a chance to improve something to your looks, what would it be??


It's so interesting to find out how people perceive themselves, superficially. Share with me I'm curious! :D

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love my eyes. But i want bigger boobs :)

Anonymous said...

my nose!it's a handicap, could not hold my glasses and ended up looking like a granny.

Anonymous said...

like my boobs but prefer them if they're a cup size smaller, and i want smaller jaw and great TEETH!!
but i don't think i can endure the pain on going under the knife

YES to BRACES! RAWR<3

miemiemie said...

haha. i won't say it anonymously coz i aint shy. hehehe

i feel you girl! we all have a lot of insecurities. nobody's perfect! what am i most satisfied about? it has to be my nose. i used to think that i wanted it smaller but now i realized that its perfect for me. parts that need to be improved? haha my teeth! i got braces but they're still not perfect. oh well. my tummy! i gained too much weight recently and now its so hard when you work and study all the time you can't do exercise. plus my legs now. they used to be lean. now i feel embarassed wearing short skirts or shorts. i prefer mine looking thin. and my forehead.. which i can't do anything about. hahaha its to wide!

anyway, we can't have everything we want. we can just be content, move on and make the most out of what we have.

Anonymous said...

Its funny u brought up this topic..
I keep telling ppl that i wanna get new boobies and ppl are like oh ur gonna look like a pornstar with strap ons.
truth is i dont care what anyone thinks about me. if i want boobs n i have enuff money to buy them, thats entirely my choice... screw those who stereotype.

christina said...

face structure - i have a fat face :( any weight i gain goes to the face first (can you say double chin ?!?)

i quite like my hands coz they look small and lady like -_-"

Racheal k said...

My eyes and nose babes! Also maybe some liposuction on my hips, thighs n arms!

Anonymous said...

hehe i have to confess i've tried Botox on my jawline!

at first i did it because of i grind my teeth at night, and all that tension in my jaw muscles was giving throbbing headaches for weeks. it got so bad i went to Google ways to fix my grinding problem, and one way is to Botox (and hence paralyze/kill off) a major jaw muscle that you use for grinding.

not only did my grinding problem go away.. my jawline has also shrunk like 30%! my doctor said it's because i already had huge jaw muscles from my grinding -_- but the problem with is it's so expensive to upkeep.. i have to do it every 5-6 months. still, i can attest that you can get a super sharp chin from Botox! (and my friends even thought i lost weight)

mustardqueen said...

anon1: there's always pushup bra ahahahaha I feel I need bigger boobs too but then again it's already quite hard for me to buy clothes (u know those free size ones) so if it's bigger lagi harder to find!!!


anon2: lol well there's always contact lens!! I think my nose is bulbous I always wanted a smaller nose too!!!!


anon3: hurhur lucky you!! Well, I'd prefer my boobs to be a cup size up hahahahaha and YESSS Braces I heard they do amazing changes to your jawline!!! :D


miemiemie: THat's right!! embrace your body, that's most important, it's like I am not sure what I'll feel about myself if I go under the knife!! Who knows what might happen and maybe i'll become a different me!! But then again if you can be a better version of yourself, why not right?? :P Well, if I had the chance, I'd say I'd go for it =p


anon4: no matter what ppl will still judge!!! It's stereotyped la, if you get boob job they link you to porn star blablabla, but end of the day it's your boobs, you're comfortable with it, then why not go for it?? If it boost your confidence, go ahead!! Screw what ppl think!! ;P


christina: the first place that gains weight is my tummy and thighs fmlllllll I have a big face cos of the bone structure and strong jawline -_- I cannot do anything unless I shave my jaw wtf! Don't mind hahahahaha DAINTY HANDS ARE CUTE!!! At least you can wear rings and look nice. I wear normla sized rings as knuckle rings wtf cause of my manly fingers -_-


moon: DO SQUATS!!!!! Saggy ass no more!! =D I can feel changes in my butt after doing weighted squats hehehehehe


racheal: But you've got someone who love you for who you are!!!!!!! :D I think your eyes very nice lor, it has the "smiley" effect that makes ppl happy =DDDD


anon5: mind telling me how much you paid for it?? I have a lot of jaw muscles too and been considering trying botox out hehehehehe cos i feel my face is quite round!!! And if I can have a sharper jawline I DONT MIND! =P

Anonymous said...

i find nothing i like about my features. i look old, tired and fat :( i don't even dare to mirror myself.

Anonymous said...

Hey anon 11:35pm
I used to feel like you, burned out old tired and fat. I don't take photos and quite reluctant to meet old friends. I decided to do something coz I dun like the feeling. I started exercising and had lost 18 lbs (22 more to go, that's how much I've put on). I feel quite good now, the thing is I am more forgiving to myself now. It took a long time to lose the 18 lbs and initially I was on the verge of giving up but told myself not to think of how much more to lose and just hang in there. Now even if I don't lose anymore I will still be happy that I've faced my problem and done something about it and ... I am healthier !

Anonymous said...

the Botox was about 950 SGD. but it depends on how many units of Botox you're getting, and i've heard my doctor is on the expensive end of the spectrum. so the $$ may vary for you :)

Christine said...

Bigger boobs, whiter and straighter teeth, and a sharper nose :) Im happy with the way i look, but i dont mind changing these few things if i have the chance.

mustardqueen said...

anon1135: WHYYYYYYY!?? I used to be like you! I hated myself, I didnt dare to look myself in the mirror. I feel like as if the world hates me. Then I realize life is too short to be hating on this body that I'm born into, I'm given this, to love myself. I then realise to be loved, I need to love myself first. I'll be spending god knows how long more in this body, if I don't start appreciating what I have, it's gonna deteriorate really quickly and you're going to be living everyday in it, might as well give it some love. CHIN UP BEAUTIFUL!!! You may not feel pretty or beautiful, but who knows some other girls are dying to look like you, or more so, your beautiful heart.


anon837: whoaaaaaa I dunno why I can never lose a large amount of weight. Everytime I weigh myself it's either maintaining the weight or gained. So I took measurements instead and I'm more happy than ever hehehehehe AND YEAY to healthier you!!! <3 Ppl like you are one of the biggest motivators of life, you give ppl hope you know?? Plateaus are there for you to BREAK THROUGH it. :) *fist bump*


anon1259: *gulp* that is one expensive injection T_T but but but might be cheaper in KL who knows right hahaha I was waiting impatiently for ur answer cause I'm dying to know the price =P=P Thank u so much! :D I shall check out the aesthetic clinics around hehe


christine: Nothing braces can't fix for straighter teeth! :P hahah same sentiments, if given the chance and money I'd like to have a nicer nose too!! Just that I'm scared how superstitious some chinese are they say changing shape of ur nose will affect your luck etc etc haihhhhh thye say bulbous nose like mine is luck -_-

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