Monday, July 05, 2010

Modern Day Fairytale

Today mom told me something, a similar topic to what I've seen on Sex and the City's episodes, to be exact, the Turtle and the Hare about Carrie's friend getting married.

And she whispered to her, best of all the husband loves her more than she does.

Is it okay to marry someone who loves you more than you do, so that you take more than you give? Or so I thought the olden day myth was that when you know he or she is the one you can feel it, you love both equally, there are unrequited love, something that one can not explain but only those involve can feel it. Instincts, feelings, emotions whatever. They just KNOW it, or so I've read or watched or felt it.

If one do not marry someone who loves he or she more than the partner does, will it be lasting??


And that got me questioning, is it ever lasting if one party sacrifices more? By giving and taking?? Is my perception that there are balance in between or there are no equal amount of love given is right? I'm confused.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

it should be both ways, else both will never be happy.
equal or not, really, its very difficult to judge coz it's not objective.
if have to choose, i will choose to marry someone i love 'more', think i will be happier.
put it to the extreme, i would be totally miserably if i am stuck with someone whom i dont love (no matter if he loves me deeply)
not sure you understand what i am trying to say :p

nadia said...

err to me, i want someone who loves me more, because i will be so loved.;)) but thats also because i think with time, i can love the person too. but thats me..

Lady Jessus said...

hahah MY MUM SAYS THE EXACT SAME THING its better if your husband loves you more than you love him
but then again I think my parents like each other equally - based on my OWN interpretation ??
hhaha I THINK love for each other should be equal ....:D

mustardqueen said...

anon: I think too, I'd love to love someone but then again I'm afraid I won't be getting back what I gave, it's a give and take thing, it'd be selfish to say if I won't be loved more by the person i love right. Yeah I agree, there is no way to measure.

nadia: but then how sure can you be when you love the person after some time that the person will still love you the same? lol jst personal opinion. :P

jess: AGREE!! :D

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